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First of all, drama queen implies it’s a girlie thing. Males and females alike are equally capable of requiring way more energy than a relationship with them is worth.Whether it is from believing they were not loved, not good enough, not wanted or accepted, an internal narrative developed, almost always unconscious, that plays out when memories of those feelings are triggered and/or come to the surface. The only thing you can do is manage yourself, which is where doing nothing comes into play. That choice is From an armchair psychology amateur…In that process they exhaust everyone in the present by replaying whatever story they are telling themselves from their pasts. Despite their efforts to involve you, there is nothing you can do to change them because changing them means trying to change personal histories, which is not possible. I don't think Drama Persons feel safe in the world.Drama, being a close kin to high maintenance, may manifest itself in behaviors that look different across the continuum of masculinity to femininity, but make no mistake, drama kings are every bit as real as drama queens.So for the purposes of this piece, we’ll be talking, “drama persons.” From there the issue is, what do you do when one crosses your path?
I would think it impossible for any Drama Person to "grow up", because their frame of reference does not include the emotional tones which everyone seems to expect they should just somehow know & understand.